About Me

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Midrand, South Africa
Im just me, I love life. I love the challenges each day brings. I think of myself as young, black and powerful. I am all woman, every woman. An unpolished diamond. Untapped potential!!

BARBIE MINAJ


Mattel - the makers of Barbie doll have decided to give Nicki Minaj her moment for her life with a once off edition of the famous doll. Minaj Barbie will be auctioned off  on Wednesday the 7th of  December and all proceeds will go to a charity -Project Angel which benefits men , women and children affected by HIV/AIDS and Cancer with food. Starting off at $1000, I expect nothing less of the craziness Nickie is.


ABOUT ME - CURRENT STATE OF AFFAIRS


I love me, my family,  my friends, music, i love blogging, i love life :-)

Im hungry for new beginnings , some thing new in my life – a hobby. I feel I need to check into a dance or aerobics class sooner than yesterday. Ballet dancing would be most preferable  but don know if it can be done for old bones like mine

I need the courage to cut my hair into a short style and try out deep red lipstick for darkies like me. More like a deep plum. With the right shade, absolutely striking and sexy. To new beginnings...

I cant get enough of  the avon eye shadow quads. Suits my pocket just fine and they come in fabulous colours. I love the neutrals – nothing as comfortable as make up that screams natural. Different shades for different days.

I come across as a tomboy but im such a girly girl. I love frills, ruffles,  ribbons, lace,  pink, purple, florals and all things feminine.

My favourite colour when I was growing up was blue. Royal blue, sky blue, baby blue.  Thanxs  to my primary school color and our kitchen walls. Yeah I know….. my current obsession is green . All things green. All shades of green.

Im lusting after  a preety lampshade, floral wallpaper, a chandelier. *Singing* this little light of mine, im gonna make it shine. Let it shine, let it shine. Let it shine.     This little light of mine…..I read a lot before bed and hate it when I still have to go and switch of the lights. Seems that short moment takes all my sleep awayL

My pick me up is good music, lots of chocolate.

I will marry the man who sees the inner beauty in me than the outer beauty.
Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.


Until such a time as next time
xoxo

RIHANNA - WE FOUND LOVE


Its Friday – it’s the weekend baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaby . cant say much of any plans
It’s the weekend when supposedly most people are broke and will involuntarily sit in their homes and just chill. I just viewed Rihanna’s new video for the song ‘We found love’ and its clear to me Riri is so not over Chris Brown. Its like everywhere I go , we have to rewind to these two, memories of how they loved and lost and let the world tear them but its not like Breezy is over her either…. . A topic for another day.

I will admit I hate to love this girl because im proudly  a Chris Breezy #1 fan but im a fair lady . I appreciate the good things in life (my famous quote). You have to listen and feel ‘Man down’ to experience what a great artist she is. For a moment I got lost in the Caribbean. Life is too short to be a hater so yeah I give a standing ovation to her. I am slowly being converted.  She grabs the world with lapels and It's only up from here, no downward spiral. You can’t take anything away from a diva.

And in other news Chris Brown is dominating the nominations for the 2011 soul train award nominations. All you haters must \_____ and appreciate him - a legend (in the making).


Here’s to the freaking weekend.

http://youtu.be/ZR0v0i63PQ4

POWER & BEAUTY: A LOVE STORY OF LIFE ON THE STREETS'.


Earlier this month I wrote about Common's 'One Day It Will Make Sense' and just now another rapper who by now you must know I have a soft spot for, just released his own book entitled ' Power & Beauty: A Love Story of Life on the Streets'. Tip Harris better known as T.I just makes me proud.  its about time the world recognized talent even through the misdemenours he has been through - The title itself is intriguing, my fingers are scratching to get a copy and alas it will be a long waiting period. While the book is no biography of him it has been described as page-turning urban African-American fiction at its very best… Surprise surprise for a supposedly jailbird. The rapper who has dropped so many chart topping hits like my all time favourite from him " "Get back up" " said his motive behind the book is to encourage the generation that he speaks to to do more reading. No matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading, or surrender yourself to self-chosen ignorance.
Read in order to live.
 
enough respect


ONE DAY IT LL MAKE SENSE - COMMON


Gentleness and humility are not words you would normally use to describe a rap artist. But there  are no better words to portray this icon in the true light. And you can’t speak of Lonnie Rashid Lynn, the artist better known as Common without mentioning his hit track ‘The light’. And if you have cared enough to digest the lyrics to the song – you would know what a music genius he is.

He  released his autobiography about a week or so ago that has made its way to the New York Times best selling list.  One Day It’ll All Make Sense is the title of his release and sheds light into his life, through his early life, the music industry, fatherhood, his relationship with Erykah Badu , even his controversial invitation to the White house and of late his acting.
Once it lands on our shores imma get a copy for myself.  I’m no hip-hop\/rap fan but cliché "I appreciate the finer things in life".  He is an understated legend in the game and from the  mental image I have of him - i would like to read this book simply to get something unedited and raw - coming from a black mind and a black man's mouth.

 
One Day It'll All Make Sense

ABOUT ME- THE BUCKET LIST

Its the last day of September, and well im personally not happy with my blog uploads for the month. Got so much stuff on draft , yet because of busy schedules and the demands of this life could not find the time. I sincerely apologize to all in silentville who take time to read about this
' my life, my passions and all '.
Hips don’t lie and so the figures show you have been hitting on me.
Luv you more than enough....
My current state of mind is @ peace. Im happy with the person i am and still i have so much love to offer. Some body said - if you not growing you are dying - i can confidently say i have grown so much in person - its an amazing feeling to think this is me. So to round off the month im sharing you a bucket list of my passions rather random thoughts of me in lala-land.  Be blessed

 

Own and run an empire
This wont be your average girl next door type of thing – first up a decor House. I have always said I  have a taste for all the finer things in life - and so this would be a reflection of all things me, not limited to interior decor but right down to everyday lifestyle . And also on the endless list of passions is to own a woman mag that combines all that that fascinates me.  Decor, good food, books, travel, fashion, travel, sport(man utd), music, motivation, spirituality....the list goes on.   Life is too short for bad days.

Cook better than Jamie Oliver
Im no master  chef in the kitchen but one day i would like to be the host with the mostess... i love entertaining - so good food has to be part of the package.


Get married and have a bunch of kids
Coming from a small family i have always wished that there were at least many of us to poke each other. Marriage is a beautiful covenant reflecting the agape love of God  and i think in this life , under the right circumstances its still the most beautiful thing EVER.
 faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love

Travel a lot more for different reasons
  •     to Zanzibar -  africa at its best.
  •     to Dubai - to shop and drop
  •     to NY city just nje to see what the hype is out
  •     to Jerusalem - for a spiritual experience         
  •     all over europe and apprecitate the good life

Zanzibar - dear future hubby - take note
 



ZAHARA - LOLIWE

DJ SBU feat. ZAHARA - LE-NGOMA



There is no denying the vandal is on top of the game and this song is currently banging in the clubs and in my native language ' into enhle iyabukwa'. this is a killa song from the one and only No 1 Knoxman. there is even greater hype about the songbird in this track. She deserves a standing ovation - her vocals are AMAZINGGGGGGG

ENJOY!

A MUST READ

I got this book over the weekend at the 3C wedding conference and i cant put it down. As I type im feeling the impact of less hours  of my beauty sleep, all I know its for a worthy cause.

I wrote about how a part of my everyday life is about my spirituality here
and there are so many truths which i think every deserving woman needs to know  to improve their lives as an all rounder - wife, mother , sister, daughter, friend ... .


If you are seeking to raise yourself to the next level - I highly recommend this book.  It is overwhelming and inspirational a must read for all you ladies. It challenges you have a servant heart and cultivate an attitude that changes the world around you.

Your attitude determines your altitude.

THE MINNIE SERIES

Most of the past week i have been peeping into my nearest Legit to have a first hand look at this much awaited MINNIE series and well the moment has finally come.....(DRUM ROLL HERE)

 I anticipated lots of color, flowers and all things girly and fairy and truth be told -it nails it. Minenhle Dhlamini is definitely going places with this range. We await to see how it sells but i will speak for myself and say these below are definitely on my list to have.  
 
i dont usually do max dresses but this is devine and has sm purple



from day to night- i heart

 
love the skirt

can you spell A-W-E-S-O-M-E.
This is it!!!!

HOW TO LOVE



Normally neh, im a die hard RNB babe and over the years I have said these rap boys just have to pass. Love reigns in me and its no surprise that this Lil Wayne song got me hooked. The heavily tattooed artist actually sings and SURPRISE he actually sounds good, im feeling this tune.

Lil Weezy moves out of his comfort zone and brings us a love ballad with a twist  using the acoustic guitar to melt many die hard rnb loyalists. Change is inevitable and if this song is anything to go by - HIP HOP IS ON TO THE NEXT LEVEL.

I describe this song as simple beautiful - brings out a soft side to a usually hard core aggressive rapper

AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG


You had a lot of crooks tryna steal your heart
Never really had luck, couldn’t never figure out
How to love       How to love
You had a lot of moments that didn’t last forever
Now you in the corner tryna put it together
How to love       How to love
.......    ...... .....
See I just want you to know
That you deserve the best
You’re beautiful        You’re beautiful Yeah
And I want you to know, you’re far from the usual        Far from the usual

THINKING OF YOU - THEO FT ZONKE

LOVE NEVER FAILS

Spring officially starts tomorrow but eish i cant wait - i love this season so much and as of now its bringing beautiful memories - its wedding season.
Im feeling so lovey dovey at the moment - blame it on the ...hmm blame it on the beauty of nature. I have this song playing in my heart, in my mind.

Love is a beautiful thing. These 2 may be no more but LOVE NEVER FAILS.
When I said I do, I meant that I will 'til the end of all time
Be faithful and true, devoted to you
That's what I had in mind when I said I do
Truer than true, you know that I'll always be there for you
That's what I had in mind, that's what I had in mind,
When I said I do

I HEART LOVE

ABOUT ME - I LOVE DECOR

There's a fire starting in my heart,
Reaching a fevered pitch and it's bringing me out the dark.
A whole lot of untapped talents r screaming in me, begging to be birthed.
A whole new dream awaiting to be unleashed.


Its in times like this that the artist in me comes alive – summer is kinda like the best time of the year for some of us January babies. And there aint no greater inspiration than the sounds of birds chirping early morning, the bloom in the veld, and the smell of wet sand after a pour of blessings, I swear , I could almost eat it.


There are times when I think im not answering to my calling, sometimes I think im in the wrong industry. Its pictures like this that unsettle me.



 

This is my dream – I could do this everyday of my life and not be paid- 
that would be a taste of heaven. I let go and let God be.

SOMEBODY SAID COMFORT IS THE ENEMY OF DESTINY –
SO GETUP AND DO THIS THING

SPRING HAS SPRUNG - HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS


Its the last day of winter 2011 and aint i just sooo glad to welcome spring.
I love Pretoria , reminds me of my native Bulawayo.

This is the day
This is the day that the Lord has made,
I will rejoice and be glad in it.

BORN FOR THIS



I have seen dreams getting deferred but I know in my heart of hearts I was born for this.
A miracle delayed is not denied. So I hold on to my dream, I  stay focused.
THE HUSTLE CONTINUES  - ONE DAY IS ONE DAY

ABOUT ME - my spirituality

There is a side of me that very few people are privileged to know. Im a very spiritual person and I draw my strength from the man upstairs. A day starts and ends with a prayer and so just to share a little secret with you. Get hold of this book – this could be the turning point in your  life.

This book has the most amazing prayers for every situation in a woman's life.
I promise you wont be disapppointed. 

ITS THE WEDGE SEASON

I swear when they (those in the know) unleashed this summer trend – I said to myself – let this pass. There is something about them looking chunky that drew me away But after seeing these pairs below I confess my heart skipped a bit or two. Definitely im on my way to owning at least a pair after so many times of denial.

Wedges are the most comfy of heels I say, you don’t worry about a heel breaking and you are guaranteed good balance. Im chuffed that they even come in all sorts. Florals are big this summer, polka dots and stripes , I just don’t have enough reason to let them pass. Yes I got gelled up, my heart just softened.
And whoever said you cant wear them with skirts is so wrong. This is so classic, I love. The best way to rock them though is jeans rolled up, the Capri pants and wide leg pants. So go on ladies. Happy shopping.

THE COUNTDOWN BEGINS


sexiest man alive ??? i agree
Are you all ready? Bottoms up, bottoms up, throw your hands up tell security we bt to tear this club up. .. These Trey Songz posters have tickled my fancy for much too long so the count down begins.


ALL THAT COLOR

note the leopard print belt - the highlight

MICHAEL FOREVER

This is one concert i would love to attend if only ...it really comes to life.
Michael forever is set for Cardiff in Wales on October 8, 2011 and showcases the biggest names in the business in remembrance of the late king of pop, Michael Jackson.


Picture this: Usher, Chris Brown, Justin Bierber, Jay-z, Kanye West , Craig David, Cee Lo. Several of these artists have already declined invitation from the Jacksons to be part of this tribute concert. We can only wait and see. The expectations are high so we pray it measures up.

A WHITE SUMMER

THIS LOOK - I die a thousand deaths. WOZA SUMMER

HAYIKHONA


These two getting back together better not be true, I just cant deal.
i had enough of the drama in the 90s
           Remember these tracks



All  i can say to Diddy is
You have had a lot of women in yo lifetime
But see it's not a lot of women that got the right mind
be done with them pretty chicks with all the right features .... this s*** is wild.

RIHANNA ON GLAMOUR


Barely a week after being named as Vogue Italia’s woman of the year  - RIRI graces the September issue of Glamour. She spoke on a whole lot of issue but this liner did it for me on how messy life can get:
“I think honesty is the ultimate liberation in life.
People want to shy away from the truth and keep sweeping it under the rug.
But after a while, you pick up the rug and there’s just way too much dirt,
so you might as well just be up front about it.”

all laced up :-)

RIRI ON TOP OF HER GAME



Rihanna has been named "The Woman Of The Year" by Vogue Italia, the Italian edition of Vogue magazine. Described as Independent, energetic, the jewel in the crown of Jay-Z's stable was voted not just by virtue of numbers and figures but also, and foremost, for her kind and fighting spirit.


To Riri we say "well deserved". Your music is loud  and yes we love you (and the red hair)
 #teamBreezy